By Coach Court – Certified Life & Relationship Coach When you love a fearful avoidant, there comes a moment you can’t avoid. You realize that keeping the relationship healthy means you must be willing to walk away when needed. Not to punish them. Not to scare them. But to stay grounded in your own value. I’m not telling you this from theory. I’m a healed fearful avoidant myself. Those tendencies still show up here and there. So I understand the patterns from the inside. There’s a saying that goes, “When you roll around in the mud with a pig, you’ll both get dirty. The only problem is the pig likes it.” That’s what it feels like when you get...
In this video, Coach Court talks about what an honest, conscious, dismissive avoidant would say if they could.
I know what the title says, but I'm going to replace the word "honest" with "conscious" because I don't necessarily believe that dismissive avoidants are going around being dishonest with someone. I think that they're just not very conscious about the decisions that they're making.
In this video, Coach Court discusses how long to wait to get back in touch with your dismissive avoidant ex. Disclaimer: not all relationships apply. Take the Attachment Style Quiz
