By Coach Court – Certified Life & Relationship Coach When you love a fearful avoidant, there comes a moment you can’t avoid. You realize that keeping the relationship healthy means you must be willing to walk away when needed. Not to punish them. Not to scare them. But to stay grounded in your own value. I’m not telling you this from theory. I’m a healed fearful avoidant myself. Those tendencies still show up here and there. So I understand the patterns from the inside. There’s a saying that goes, “When you roll around in the mud with a pig, you’ll both get dirty. The only problem is the pig likes it.” That’s what it feels like when you get...
Avoidant partners don’t just reveal themselves through silence, they reveal themselves through language. Their tone, phrasing, and posture all tell a deeper story about emotional distance and self-protection. In this article, Coach Court breaks down the subtle language patterns of avoidant attachment, how to recognize them in real time, and what they mean for your healing and recovery journey.
In this video, Discover the five subtle but powerful ways a dismissive avoidant shows they care—plus how to tell the difference between genuine effort and unhealthy patterns. Learn the signs, the psychology behind them, and when to protect your own boundaries
In this video, Coach Court discusses the #1 myth about Avoidant partners. He walks thru a few different examples of how Avoidants might handle sex/intimacy in the relationship and what you should do about it.
