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An Avoidant FEELS THIS when they realize they've lost you

In this video, Coach Court talks about how some avoidants feel, after the breakup. Although some listeners may not agree, he's been confided in by many avoidants who have admitted their feelings, once a breakup is over. He discusses 'why' avoidants may feel the way they do and how things lead up to that breakup.

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Does setting boundaries push the Dismissive Avoidant further away?

In this short, Coach Court discusses that some boundaries might push a dismissive avoidant away. However, if those boundaries are what you need, a healthy relationship will not make you question setting them in the first place.

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Finding Closure after a BREAKUP

In this short, Coach Court talks about what closure actually means and looks like. He gives some examples of the difference between closure vs hope. He also suggests a few questions to ask yourself during this time of reflection.

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